bhabi issue

[Theorist]

Re: bhabi issue

@saimab33

Because she involves me. Whenever there is any function and they will be there she usually says stuff to me along the lines of “I dont want to even go, but your brother is making me. Im right, right? I dont want to see Phupo/Chachi, ugh…so I shouldnt have to go, but your brother is making me.”

This is the only time I ever even think about saying something to her. I wouldnt just randomly say something to her. But if you guys think I should just keep quiet, I will. I havent said anything in over 2 years, so if I dont say anything now, it doesnt make a difference either.

And I think it does have somewhat to do with her being Arab and not Pakistani. I guess Arabs dont take crap from their inlaws/ inlaws family. My husbands khala called me fat, and I am no where near fat. I am skinnier than my sils and his khalas daughters as well. I knew she was just jealous/upset because she wanted my husband to marry her daughter, and he didnt want to. Whatever, I got over it. I didnt blink an eye. I still am polite her, say my salaam, but I dont make any extra effort to talk to her. So thats why Im a little lost as to why my bhabi cant just move on.

Next time she says something like that, ask her if she wants your advice. If she says yes then tell her how you feel.