Re: BF swearing at U
what is wrong with you?
first of all, aik cheez kay peechay par gayi ho. clearly your bf doesn't want to talk or hear anything about pakistan's halat, so why in the world do you continue to badger him about it. stop it. warna aur galiyan sunay kay liye tyaar ho jaye. are you trying to prove you're better than him? because if that is the case then he's better off without you.
second, you can't change a man. all the men here will agree that you can NOT change a man. he will pretend he's better, or traits he already had will come up and be stronger, but it's his marzi. sooooo you're point about changing him. is idioitic.
third he's already been abusive with you, emotionally and verbally and still you want to grab his pallu and direct your life according to it? bravo. thank you for putting the women's movement back 50 years.
also, why are you spelling PHIR like FIR? what is that. learn to learn urdu first. maybe your bf shouldn't be with you, if you can't even speak butchered urdu properly.
everyone's saying dump the guy, but clearly you don't want to listen to advice. if you just wanted to tell your story then you should have just opened a blog.
you're 17 for cripe's sakes. you are TOO young to think about marriage and changing men and the halat of the world. go put on some makeup and trail the mall.
and all ya'all other teenagers and people who act like teenagers either need to stop posting, or stop pretending you're grown up. you're not.