if he was ur husband even if u had had just nikkah with him...I wud tell u to stick with him....but since thats not the case i highly highly recommend you move on and im saying this through experience....pehle zubaan hadh se zyada challne lagti hai phir ek din haath bhi uthh jaata hai...he's verbally abusive when he gets mad...for now...one day m scared he may even raise his hand on u...so please turn ur back on him....
and next time u pick a guy pick someone from UK or USA or Canada..preferably from UK...if u pick somoene from pakistan be prepared that just like ur current bf he may not want to leave his motherland. There are some awesome guys in pakistan...real gems... but acha rishta milna bohot mushkil hotga hai chaahe aap Pak mein dhundho UK mein dhundho ya kahin bhi dhuundho but you have to realize a guy from pakistan marrying a girl from the west...and there will be challenges...here are some of the challenges:
- geographical location...: both do not want to go to the other's country to settle down
- mental level...: and i dont mean west ki girls have higher mental level than pak k boys...i mean there is a difference in mental level mainly due to the the difference in cultural environment and also difference in upbringing (socioeconomic status)
- socioeconomic status: see above
you will face the above challenges unless you marry a filthy rich guy form pak and then you will have different challenges the biggest one would be he may not be humble and he may be snooty :p
so look for someone who is close to you in mental level, and the biggest indicators of that are the similarities in upbringing, geographical location, similarities in socioeconomic status
but keep in mind when u get married even to someone who is from a similar background as yours...you will **still **have challenges...marriages are not a walk in the park especially not in the beginning when you are learning each other and getting used to each other
NEVER TOLERATE ANYONE'S verbal abuse...stop it as soon as it starts...tell him you will not stand for it and he must control his tongue or else he will lose all respect in ur eyes
and DO NOT ever tolerate physical abuse...this must also be nipped in the bud