I know these 2 people. Let’s call them A and B. They know each other 2 and we all know each other well enough to have an occassional dinner at each others place.
But I also know that A doesn’t like B as I have been told that. B may know it but has never said anything and B continues to socialize with A. A hesitates to meet B but cannot refuse because of old ties.
So, do I tell B that A doesn’t like you so back off, or should I let them fight their own battles. I like them both and I don’t want either party getting hurt.
Let them fight their own battle :(
There's always too much drama in these kind of situations and since they are grown ups, it's better if they sort it out between themselves.
I know these 2 people. Let's call them A and B. They know each other 2 and we all know each other well enough to have an occassional dinner at each others place.
But I also know that A doesn't like B as I have been told that. B may know it but has never said anything and B continues to socialize with A. A hesitates to meet B but cannot refuse because of old ties.
So, do I tell B that A doesn't like you so back off, or should I let them fight th eir own battles. I like them both and I don't want either party getting hurt.
To tell you the truth sister, I haven't seen any other 2 ppl having so much problem on GS.
Every thread I go to its A Vs B (mostly girl A and girl B) I think they should work things out for once and for all.
I’m not really sure about the exact story between the two. I know A has personal grudges…like when I meet A, she will be sure to criticize B and say something negative. I usually avoid making any comment in response or change the topic, but by now it is quite clear that there is an issue. I just feel silly knowing that especially if I happen to be with them together.
Niksik let them fight their own battle. Dont get involved in it.......you dont want your name dragged into any potential fued. Stay out of it! that's what i would do.
One Q Nikky...does this situation make you like the in between person...puts you in the weird spot of choosing sides or not?
So far no, but I know that if A says more stuff to me, I'll have no choice but to discuss this with her and then taking sides may become a possibility that I'm trying to avoid.
i had this happen to me.. then A & B got into a fight and dragged me into the middle and it was all kinda nasty... try not to say anything, cus even if mention B's name to A, A may use that against u later... when it was never ur intention to be criticising
in the end they became friends and left me.. LOL! but i was happier this way..
Initiator, I don’t really know the whole story…just pieces of negative from A. Definitely something has happened between the two, perhaps unknowingly…I cannot say.
I don’t have the courage or rather strength to find out the story because I know that’ll be like opening a can of worms.
The 2 problems I am facing are:
That B doesn’t know that A has developed a dislike for her and she continues to treat her like old times.
I like both of them. They aren’t my best friends but good enough friends to be concerned about knowing…
cause in the end u will be one who will be blamed.you stay friends with both A and B .
