Re: between friends...
no. Dont say anything... dont get involved
Re: between friends...
no. Dont say anything... dont get involved
Re: between friends...
hmmm... like others said stay out of the mess. but yeah it wud help if u get to the root of the prb and find out whats botherin her. maybe B said sum stuff in past that hurt A to this day? but whatever it is, i dun think its appropraite of her to criticise her and find negative things in B whenever she meet her. What dus B say in response when she does that Nik? B sounds like a mature person who is still socializin and stuff. i sense there is gonna b a huge fight if you were to tell B. so let A and B solve their prob themselves.
next time B asks A to come over or somethin, tell her to b upfront and say no givin some (sensible) excuse. surely but slowly, she will get the hint that shes not all that interested in seein B.
Esp if its when both of them are at the same place…I know how that is sistaa:bummer:
Oh I wasnt saying Avoid it but personally I would try to make them start liking each other…you know asking what is it that you dont lik about the person A or person B…and most often then not its just misunderstandings…small ones:)
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i say you should stay out of it as much as possible. but if it begins to bother you real bad then i suggest you talk to B to deal with the situation better. you can just ask B about her relationship with A and how things have been with them two. maybe this way you can see both sides. but do not go and tell B that A does not like her. you could end up in a big mess.
OK, so here's a situation.
I know these 2 people. Let's call them A and B. They know each other 2 and we all know each other well enough to have an occassional dinner at each others place.
But I also know that A doesn't like B as I have been told that. B may know it but has never said anything and B continues to socialize with A. A hesitates to meet B but cannot refuse because of old ties.
So, do I tell B that A doesn't like you so back off, or should I let them fight their own battles. I like them both and I don't want either party getting hurt.
Has A told you that they don't like B themselves or did you hear it as a gossip?
Don't tell B that A doesn't like you b/c this becomes back-biting. This would also hurt B. I wouldn't say anything to either of them. Let those two resolve things between themselves, if they want to.
B sounds like a nice, decent person who keeps trying hard to enjoy herself and socialize with others, no matter what others think of her! I like B's attitude. :)
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A told me herself. Nobody else is aware of this situation except for 1000 guppies
but no worries because A and B will never log on here… they aren’t desi ![]()
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^ theyre not desi?? ok that totally changed my perception lol
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Lol at 1000 guppies! :)
What issues does A have with B? Tell A too be happy with life, enjoy it and not take little things to heart. Back-biting all the time just makes a person so bitter.
OK, so here's a situation.
I know these 2 people. Let's call them A and B. They know each other 2 and we all know each other well enough to have an occassional dinner at each others place.
But I also know that A doesn't like B as I have been told that. B may know it but has never said anything and B continues to socialize with A. A hesitates to meet B but cannot refuse because of old ties.
So, do I tell B that A doesn't like you so back off, or should I let them fight their own battles. I like them both and I don't want either party getting hurt.
Maybe if you say something, they will start blaming you for their own problems. That's my experience anyway.
In my opinion it's better not to interfere.
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Some of the 1000 guppies are right Nick
It might be a good idea to stay out of it. People can have strong opinions about each other, and interfering in their conflicts you might find yourself in the middle of it - and in worse case, getting a part of the blame. I believe they are mature individuals capable of making their own decisions, let the things take their own shape.
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Nikky, if you want to do the right thing, leave it alone, let them sort it out themselves. Now, if you want to have a little fun, tell A that B was talking crap about them and the same to B and then watch as things come to a blow :D
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Don't get involved. This can get messy if you do. You implied that B already has a hunch/feeling/vibe that A doesn't like her. So, you don't need to tell B.
What if you tell B that A **doesn't like her. Then **B confronts A. And then** A** gets mad at you for breaking her trust? You'll get in the middle of this and it will be ugly.
Let the two women sort it out. A is a grown up and can decide how she should handle B.....whether that means maintaining a distance or dropping **B **all together.
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OK, yeah, I’m staying out of it.