Re: Best Advice You Received on Your Wedding/Marriage
^what does that mean?
@prototype , with my friend, the more to the story is just that, some families believe that as soon as a girl gets married into their family she shouldn’t be connected with her family as much anymore and that it is necessary to break those ties. After marriage, her husband and his family never visited her family even if they were invited or given a formal invitation, only she went and that too not without major issues and problems being created. They never attended any events unless they were within their own family. I never saw her after she got married. I guess she just took it. All families are going to be different and won’t think in the same way some weirder than most.
It’s just a really old world way of thinking and totally 180 degrees different from what i’m used to.
That’s pretty sad. I dont know why do husbands and ILs expect such a wife/dil to act normal and good with them if they have not anything to keep her stress free and relaxed in her new environment ?