Supersonick..
I have read all your posts and from them I have realised you are a narrow minded and gutless individual. Do not tar all muslim girls with the same brush. I have lived in Your pakistan and the girls there are even worse, what with their liaisons in cinemas and what not, so dont you DARE sit there and throw unfounded accusations.
IF (and it is a very BIG IF) you had a brain you would have sat down and thought about why things like this happen, not only in England but everywhere else also. It has been mentioned by other members and if you have not read what they said I will just have to reiterate it.
Firstly the majority of Pakistanis living in this country beleive it is a sin to marry of your own choice.
According to Islam this is not so.
Therefore if the parents do not agree then they are sinning. They must allow their children to marry of their choice.
Secondly the majority of Pakistani parents feel that their kids are their property, therefore they can do whatever they like with them and they shouldnt say a word.
They fail to realise we have feelings also.
Thirdly Islam has not been drilled enough into these kids for them to understand why something is right and why something is wrong.
The parents will tell them not to do something, but will fail to give them a reason as to why this is so.
If they actually bothered to sit down with their children once in a while and talk to them about their feelings and thoughts relationships would be alot easier. I feel this is more important for the girls as they are living in two different worlds. They go to school, and be themselves, they come back home and are expected to do all household chores and not go out anywhere. Where in Islam is this written?? Most of the time they are not even allowed to have friends around the house. They are bought up to beleive that this is their religion.
The lads on the other hand are treated like kings. Dont you think they are gonna have a bit of remorse?
Usually girls in their mid teens do runners cuz they have not had access to the education that is important.
Fourthly many parents do not seem to form an understanding bond with their children because they do not understand the culture, therefore do not understand what the child is trying to say.
You must understand that i am not condoning the actions of these girls who run away but YOU must understand why this happens,it is not always their fault.
There have been many case where girls have run away because of physical and sexual abuse by close kin. Do you really think they wanted to run away? I dont think so.You gonna blame that on the girls too?
IF you had bothered to research this topic properly and not just listened to what others said then you may have realised many run away because of “Majboori” not that they think they are living in Bollywood.
And they are in the minority not in the majority.
Finally I would like to say, the major problem is the lack of education in Islam. These parents dont know much about Islam (Though many do) and therefore cant teach their children anything.
As for womens rights, that is a load of rubbish that you lot go on about.
Islam gives women every right they need, the sad fact is that not many know about this.
Why dont you try and educate your muslim sisters instead of slagging them off just to get attention?
Finally you can sit there and blame it all on western society but at the end of the day a child learns what it is taught, be it good or bad. Good muslim parents have the Farz of giving their children a good grounding in Islam and if they fail to do this their child is gonna be preyed on by the Kuffar.
Do you really think that if these girls knew what their religion was really about and if their parents practised it they would run away?
In future THINK before you speak.
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