Re: Being US Born & Bred, Choosing a Spouse from the Motherland
Some Pakistani guys do (hold the esteem of women born abroad), some don’t. The ones that do, will be able to choose the most desirable rishtas from abroad (or Pakistan). The reality is that desirable people, be it due to attractiveness, or accomplishments, will never have a shortage of rishtas. This applies to both men and women, in Pakistan or abroad.
You need to stop generalizing about people from Pakistan. Believe it or not, there are men there who would turn down a rishta from you (or other ABCDs). Similarly, not everyone who goes to Pakistan to marry is doing so because they were unable to find a rishta abroad, or because they want an obedient wife. PCG needs to work on PCG, and stop coming off as bitter and antagonizing. Your threads are coloured with comments about Desi men, yet nowhere do you question your own personality or suitability.
If Pakistani guys don’t hold esteem in the eyes of women raised abroad, then that is the fault of the women, or their parents, because there are plenty of Pakistani guys that women here would find highly desirable. The question is, do those desirable Pakistani guys find you desirable?