Being thin vs being fat

[Reha]

Re: Being thin vs being fat

@yanzala

it shouldn’t bother me but it does…well see it goes a lot further than this, i am the darkest skin person out of my entier family. my mom, my sister, my aunts everyone is really gooray, i mean serious white sorta people, and i am very dark. personaly i don’t care. but when u hear so many people (including ur own mother) always bringing up the skin color it become very very annoying. so when i was younger it started from, khati peeti nahi hai isi liyeh rang jall gaya. (yeh genetics really have no roles over anything) then it was “beemar lagti hai” (to my mom, random aunties) “aap ki bayti hai?? aap jaisi nahi lagti, aap or chooti wali tu bohat piyaray hain, yeh father pay chali gai ho gi” and now it has all improved to the entire me, my thiness and my complexion all tied in. and after ignoring so many things, there is a point where things really do get to annoy you.
few months ago at my friends wedding (whose complexion is same as mine because we use same foundation shade) my mom was talking to my friends’ mom and said, daikhain, ab *insert friends’ name here" ka rang bhi yanzala jaisa hai, magar oss ka khilta howa hia, or yanzala ka murjhaya howa, because she is so thin and does eat much now would that bother you or not, and how can u stop your own mother?? i know she doesn’t mean bad but at times it bothers me. and physically i just can’t bing on eating. i tried being healthy, i don’t eat out a lot. i hardly eat junk food. i usually only eat ghar ka pakka howa, i eat ton of salad (because i love salad, NOT because diet issues) and other raw vegies with dressing.

lol, this threat turn out of be more of my venting place than the actual problem i was discussing here. but oh well, u guys are nice, and NOT judging me by my kala rang or thinness so it’s all good

I know someone who kind of went through the same thing with reference to her skin tone. And by the way, I am also the darkest in my family. I am not kaali but not gori either. I am what people call sanwali and I love it.

Listen, people need a reason to say things and give fuzool ki advice. In one ear and out the other. Every time someone gives me an unnecessary mashwaray…I think about all the good things I have going for me. Once I start counting them…I stop caring about what others say to me.

Also, if I know its something I should be focusing on, I listen but dont let myself dwell on the negative aspects of it.