Re: Being patient with parents
we all face such situations ......whenever it happened to me i.e. before getting married. I just used to cry to take out my anger sometimes use to get angry infront of them but that too when things really got out of my control. try to sabar this is what i have learn ....things do change and Allah rewards you for it. Just don't forget that they raised us when we were totaly dependent on them and bear with us when we were all cranky , crying , making our clothes dirty and they have put up with everything including taking care of our dirty napies . Parents do things for us that no one will do , and they dont keep us awake by crying all night like we did to them.
I have a maid who has worked in our house for more than 20 years she listens silently to my mom's daant (which are not justified most of the times) just because she never forgets how kind my mother has been to her when she was in need. She being a stranger , not a blood relation can put up with so much then why can't we do sabr as being children of our parents :)