Re: Being killed for marrying a christian man and leaving Islam
Then what way she means it? I like PCG and I like her posts. Not trying to be fake flattery. I can relate to her and I like how she supports women’s ability to choose in life. so I don’t understand why I’m being asked to not tapak beech mein and pointed out I’m an outsider because of my opinion.
I understand people may have had bad experiences with Indians, regardless of religion, but there are 1 billion of them and many have met less than 100. I am not even from North America so how can I be responsible or even change those perspectives.
But ok I’ll take it easy.
Well the indian and hindu comment was directed towards me even if I did not mention it anywhere on this thread. It’s obvious from my threads I’m indian. I was trying to help people find common ground, not assume and see the perspective of others. Nowhere has Bella led anyone to doubt her nationality on any of her threads. Just because a pakistani posts differently does not make them indian similarly just because an indian has a different opinion does not make them pakistani. They just have different perspective on life and what is best for their country. Both feel strongly about it.
You also said that you know people of similar views. Why won’t she listen ? Give her a try. That’s how people find common ground. It’s interesting that because I’m indian and because of my opinion I’m assumed to be hindu. I could be anything. I could be Muslim, Christian, Sikh, Hindu, Buddhist, Jain, deist with no specification. I may not even be religious at all. Similarly a pakistani could be Christian, hindu, Sikh as well. They can also comment, right? I have never mentioned my religion on GS threads and I never will. People can assume about me or see me as human. 1-2 people have insisted and asked personally as friends and I have told.
Doesn’t matter if I defend or not I have made my reputation such I will get flak anyway. I don’t mind but just pointing it out Some of the Indians here assume I’m a racist and stalker because I speak positive in preference of Pakistanis. Some conservative and liberal Pakistanis say I am insecure/trying for approval/trying to ‘kiss ass.’ Or label me as hindu and tell me to stay out.
I’m loving the diversity of comments. It’s helping me improve.
I said all that cz You Said “Since she (bella) is Pakistani and KNOWS SIMILAR LAWS EXISTS IN PAKISTAN”. Such laws do nt Exist in Pak. And also, Bella is not Paki..