Being kaali pakistani

[Paheli00]

Re: Being kaali pakistani

@inspiron

Nope nothing changed from when he first started dating to when he broke up with me.

Because I was kaali I became the joke amongst his jaahil friends and so he broke up with me based on him finding me unattractive.

The ************** also felt he needs to tell me this was the reason he is breaking up with me.

It still effects my confidence.

Especially as in between people called me african and too kaali to be desi, rishtas have turned me down for being too kaali.

I am NC40 btw.

Wow…so just like OP…you’re also lighter than me!

For what its worth…your ex didn’t all of a sudden find you “unattractive”. He just didn’t have the balls to stand up to his friends and felt the need to “justify” his behavior to himself.

One of close guy friends broke up with his GF (who he was really liked) b/c his parents didn’t approve of her b/c she came from a poor background (his family has $$$). Instead of being honest and telling her that he didn’t have the balls to stand up to his family…he told her that the reason he was ending the relationship is b/c she wasn’t “educated” enough to be his wife (she had a Bachelors). Soooooo yea…sometimes the “reason” given by a guy for dumping you is FAR from the truth.