Being kaali pakistani

[Paheli00]

Re: Being kaali pakistani

@inspiron

When this flaw is constantly picked out over and over and over and over by the people who you wanted to be accepted by. Its hard to ignore.

The US has less this issue than the UK for various demographic reasons.

Being in the U.S., I have to admit I know nothing about “society” in UK.

I agree with the 1st portion. BUT…in the OP’s case…according to what she wrote…her mom/dad/siblings have never called her kaali. Her fiance has never called her kaali. She’s even has multiple guys ask her out. Unless I misunderstood something…it seems that at least in her case, it’s random aunties/uncles that may have made comments and b/c SOME random guys didn’t find her attractive. Its a far reach from being picked on by people who’re important in your life.