Re: being honest about your relationships
i beg to disagree with you..mem moms decide everything for her offsprings.....only when they are kids.... when they are grown ups..... its no body's but that person's business.... so chosing a girl to marry is not ammi's or abu's or sister's job....
true. families in desi culture are so intrusive. they want you to choose a career they like, the wife the like, the school they like. they make it as if it is their duty. i think the job of the adults should be like guides, not like dictators. we have dictators in our families.