Re: Being friends with your Ex
emotional blackmail.
maybe he watches too many dramas with his wife.
he doesnt want you meddling in his marriage and affairs yet he seems to want to take control of yours.
stay strong and ignore! keep yourself busy with work, friends, family, etc etc
Re: Being friends with your Ex
why act hostile? coz you dumped his married ass, and he is hurt. :\ maybe his wife or mom will give him a plate of biryani and he'll be fine. also, he is an A grade loser. why would you even associate with such a guy, let alone fall in love? hain? get someone to give you a good slap.
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ewwwww he sounds like he's mentally ill. please please please, you think it'll be hard to get over him now? it'll be easier than you ever imagined. and then you'll wanna kick yourself for ever falling for this jerkiness.
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Mughay samagh nai aa raha Dopeher ko bilkul theek thi aik dam rat ko kya ho gaya, Dil bhar gaya tumhara. Person ap ne kaha mera ZAMEER nai, Zameer ap ka nai mera Zameer na hota aj kisi kona m pari hoti koi muh na lagata tumhain, ya kisi train ke samne kood k Jan de daiti. and I am sorry, Ap ki koi cheez delete nai thi ki.
Aik bat samgha do bas, dopeher ko ap ne bilkul theek bat ki rat ko pata nai kya ho gaya aur sab khatam. khud bilkul normal life guzar rahi jab dil kerta message ker laiti aur na dil kare tu bas main bat nai kerna chahti mughay move forward kerne do future p focus kerne do, etc etc,,,, Main ksi waqt ap ki shadi future m rakawat bana hon. Rishtay bhi dekh rahe sab kuch ker rahe bas mughay hi pagal kerne k liye rakha ,, jab dil chaha thoker mar di jab dil chaha thoker mar di. Is ka matlab dil bhar jana hi hota aur kya hota. Aur han pics sab save hain nai delete kin jab dil kerta dekhta hon, is ka matlab ap ko blacmail kerna nai. Jo ap ne mere zameer pe bat ki us bat pe buhat gussa mughay.apni izzat p bat aye aik dum mazloom ban jati ho. Lakin aglay ki bezati kerte waqt zuban nai rukti tumhari.
Tumhain kya lagta meri wife mere sath laiti hoti aur main tumhain sari sari rat message ker rha hota hon. Aisa possible hai? Aur tum kaun hoti bar bar meri shadi p discuss kerne wali. Main jaisa marzi life guzaron tum kaun hoti mughay toknay wali. Apna views soch ko control m rakho. apna past chupa k nai thi ki shadi sab bata ke ki tumhare apna bare main. Apna faiday k liye kuch bhi ker sakti, kam nikalta ho bas. Ager itna hi bure hum aur main tu kis bat ka dukh tumhain tu buhat khush hona chahaiye pir kyun ansoo bahati. Jao apna kam karo khisab kitab karo bara fakhir tumhain apna kam apna sensible honay pe sari zindagi yeah hi kam kerna tum ne Kam se hi shadi ker lo. Kuch larkian hoti demagh tu asman p hotay lakin haqeeqat main zameen P reeng rahi hoti. Aj bhi tum logon ki soch waisi hi hai. Hamesha apni priorities ko high rakhte ho. mera demagh bht khrab plz.
I don't have the endurance to read through all that. Can you provide a translation/summary?
Re: Being friends with your Ex
wow, some people here...!!!!!!
mods, please close the thread. if possible, please delete the thread. thank you.
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The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off
-Gloria Steinem
Re: Being friends with your Ex
Seems like u r replying to his texts. Plz ignore!
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What a jerk....!
Stop responding to his messages and change your number.
Being friends with your Ex
I feel so bad for his wife! Poor girl.
I don't mean this in a hostile way, but how can you do that to another girl? and to this guy you supposedly care about? Don't you see how YOUR actions are keeping you in this mess. You are giving him all the power (whether you believe it or not.) to keep this going. Yes, this guy is at fault but rightnow, this is all you.
Picture this, your future husband, constantly texting another girl all day long, telling her everything about your family and your marriage, who in exchange won't leave him alone. Put yourself in those shoes and tell yourself what you need to do. Nobody can help you if your not willing to help yourself and nobody can have that much power over you (especially an ex) unless you allow yourself to be treated this way. He is not only ruining this innocent girls life but yours as well only because your letting him, that's not his fault, that's yours.
The only actions you have control over are yours. His threats should not phase you if you have nothing to worry about. Making yourself less available only continues this dragged out relationship which shouldn't even exist anymore. If your so afraid of what he'll do to you in the future, why not put your experience to use and have faith that your ability to judge men will be much better the next time around and that your future husband will be nothing like this pathetic personality. therefore, if this ex does decide to ruin your life, your husband will know how to handle him. ... If your afraid of his threats then that means you know underneath what your also doing is wrong and have something to hide. If your going to be going into your next relationship with an open and honest front then you have nothing to worry about. If your afraid he'll expose intimate details well your only giving him more reason to by continuing to talk to him. Your future husband is not even in the picture yet so that's a pathetic excuse for you to continue to stay in his life. Yes, his threats are your excuse, not his. He is pathetic and we all know that. Heed the advice here and please don't ruin another girls life. She's the only one suffering and helpless one in this so called "friendship" that you won't give up for your own selfish reasons. If you really cared about him, you would leave him and his marriage alone.
Even if you think you do, you don't have a right (none) to go in and advise him on his marriage even if he comes looking for the help. The best help you could give him would be to ignore his MSGs and the best advice would be "the silent treatment"
How would you feel your future husband getting help on your future marriage from an ex. You'd want this girl to leave him alone right?! Seriously put yourself in those shoes and if you truly have nothing to hide then you truly have nothing to worry about even if this guy wants to make trouble for you.
Re: Being friends with your Ex
closed upon OP's request.