Being friends with your Ex

[Muzna]

Re: Being friends with your Ex

@nosheen2013

You people just come on the forum to trash others, don’t you? If it was your own sister asking for advice, would you have used words like mistress? Muzna and Paheli and everyone else liking their comments? I don’t think so. There is a way to make your point without offending the other person.

1. I have a younger sister and if she were EVER, EVER to carry on communicating in this manner or even in a manner much less harmful (to herself and to others) than this, she would have to hear a lot, lot worse from me. In fact, I would likely go as far as to intervene and reach out to the guy myself as well as subject her to a family intervention on the matter.

2. If you truly believe that the people who have bothered to read your long and drawn out posts are doing it simply to engage in trashing you then I’m afraid that it doesn’t seem your claim to seek advice is genuine.

3. If you look at the comments on the first page of posts you will notice that everyone was being very kind and gentle in their approach. Unfortunately that approach didn’t seem to work for you; hence the harsher words.

Suit yourself.

Btw…just as you are so concerned about him being happy with his wife, why is he not as concerned about you? I would think that someone who loves you would want you to be happy even at the expense of his own happiness.

If he is the type that would come and create a scene at your workplace, thereby making life difficult for you, how much does he actually care about you?