Being Avoided, I Don't Wanna Be

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Both. :yahoo:

I’m smug about being right :snooty:

And yeah…if you’re still asking whether you should tone down your lovey dovey confessions…you haven’t “understood” yet. :chai:

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shew. . . . okk then. . . . . ? is there anythin u might wanna say?

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Even though I had to write something SO cringeworthy- I hope no guy uses that line on me- I’m glad the point got through. And I deserve to be smug about that :snooty:

Yeah...

How the did you get out of school at 8:50 in the morning ?

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woohooooo. . . . ! ! !
i met her. . ! ! ! ! i talked face to face. .
reason why she was mad - a girl 'x' told her tat i'm in love wit 'x'. . and tat 'x' happens to be one of our mutual friends, unfortunately. . not anymore. .
which still leaves a question unanswered, is she being protective or possessive? nd our talks went much much better than i expected. . she doesn't feel tat i'm coming too strong on her, she feels i'm going away from her, and tat makes me more confused. . so what is this anyway. . . ? i hope the great redvelvet and the great soundarya can come up wit somethin. . . ?

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Hey hey lync, i'm off sk3wl. . i finished my twelfth. . . . ;)

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You haven't finished it if they gave you homework.

so this girl 'x' told her that you're in love with 'x'
and she didn't even ask you whether it was true or not ???

But why did girl 'x' say you liked girl 'x' when actually you like girl 'x'. Girl 'x' should've understood that you really don't like girl 'x' and it's girl 'x' that you're truly madly deeply in love with. Girl 'x' shouldn't have done that to girl 'x', it was very wrong of girl 'x' to hurt girl 'x' and cause trouble between you and girl 'x'. I sincerely hope that you get back to your girl 'x' and the girl 'x' gets punished for what she did.

Gina beyhosh

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ya!! grew so damn crazy, but today she asked me, if i love 'x'. . oly after i proved it was a no, she went cool. . .

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Gina, u r amazing. . . . =P

:aliyish:

yeah…isn’t she…:faizy:

hey, how come you finished your 12th, you had to go to school instead of your examination center, and they gave you homework when your classes should be over ?
because it seems like your exams are going on…
CBSE, ICSE exams of Class X, XII begin - Patna - City - The Times of India
http://www.cbse.nic.in/datesheet12-2010.pdf
http://www.cisce.org/data/Download/ICSE%202010.pdf

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My exams are done. . . !

:omg:

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^ you dp is very creepy

Actually some guys like being a doormat. They really do! And some girls love wipeing their shoes all over the doormat. So its a win win situation. Keep chasing her, She’ll soo love you in the end. :jj:

its funny ..but now that i think about it..yeah i can see that its also a little creepy

this guy is offically :jj:

So basically this OTHER GIRL (x) told your lady friend that you liked her (x).

And your lady friend got upset at what X told her because she doesn't like the idea of the possibility of you liking X. But then again, she doesn't like the idea of you being close to ANY girl (x, y, z, or any other letter of the alphabet).

This only goes to show that your friend is very possessive of you. Why? My intuition (though I might be wrong) is that she has feelings for you. Whether or not she is fully aware of those feelings is another issue. She probably thought that you and X were having an affair and that it was better for her to avoid you so that she could "move on." In other words, she may have thought that it pointless for her to entertain any romantic feelings for you if you're interested in someone else (thought that isn't true).

Now that YOU know the reason why she was avoiding you.......you need to sit down and analyze your feelings for her. If you're not romantically interested in her, then don't lead her on.

****At the same time, I DO wonder why X would go around saying that you "LOVE" her when it isn't true. Are you behaving in a way that is making X think that you are romantically interested in her when you really aren't? Are you misleading or confusing X with your words or body language. Are you using the same over-the-top, mushy/gushy/, poetic, flowery, Bollywood style, sacharine language with X as well? If you are...............then you need to STOP and tone it down because you may be unintentionally giving the wrong idea to her.

**** It's also possible that X had doubts that your lady friend was interested in you. So, in order to test her doubts.........she told your friend that YOU are in LOVE with her..............................JUST TO SEE YOUR FRIEND'S REACTION. Maybe she wanted to see if your friend would get jealous......and if so......that may confirm her doubts.