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Homework. . . !
I just got out of sk3wl nd again homework. . . . . . . . ?
And yet eveyrthing you have told us in the thread, starting with your first post, was a lie then?
To be honest you are pretty sure what you are going to do i.e. obsessing after her so I am confused as to why you are asking for advice.
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Simple reasons they are,
She loves me more than anyone, and I love her more than anyone. . and together, we'll be fine. . .
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C'mon, u got it in all wrong shak. . Love and crush is totally different. . i saw her in a more platonic way early, but then when i came to gs, and some suggested 'subconscious romantic feelings' in me, i'm confused. . so i just don't worry about tat, if it is romantic or platonic, i love her, tats what u should know. . and she is stayin away, and i don't have a damn clue about it, i seek advice and u say i'm lying?
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sk3wlboy, i think you're seeing yourself in a bollywood movie. love isn't everything. there are issues that we all deal with in our lives, issues that can cause relationships to break off. i think you're being a little selfish in wanting her in your life. maybe it's the void in your life that is killing you. you want her back to solve all of your problems. and currently your problem is that you're lonely without her.
MAYBE her issue right now is that she's tired of being there for you and wants to be on her own.
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i'll add this too...
if you're a man now, you need to be man enough to respect her decision to be alone right now. you've shown your concerns, implied that you want to help her. but you can't help anyone until they want to help themselves or until they accept your help. you're just wasting your time right now. eventually, when you stop trying to find her, stop calling her, she may feel lonely and want you back in her life.
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i'm generally not selfish, but u know in this case, i am. . she can't be tired of being wit me, its somethin tat won't happen. . my instincts guide me. . u r ryt, my biggest issue is tat i'm lonely witout her. . she knew when i needed someone, even if i did not share my worries. . love isn't everythin, yes once again u r ryt, and its not just love we have. . somethin tat i can't explain, but i just love her more and more. . i can move on, but i just don't wanna. . . know what i mean?
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i'm not good at playing hard-to-get. . . i've been respectin her privacy for a week now. . and i tell u, its hard. . reallll hard. . and she is lonely. . i know that. . . why is she puttin herself thru this. . ? is tat any part of a girl's character?
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ok... don't think of it as you moving on, but her moving on. you can go ahead and mull over her, how she's gone, you miss her. but don't go after her.
you're respecting her privacy for a week? I love my best friends, but sometimes I go by without talking to them for WEEKS. Sure, I miss them a little bit. But people get busy in their lives. They have their families. School. Work. Life in general. A week is nothing! Some girls like to be left alone. Being along isn't so bad that you have to ask "why is she puttin herself thru this?" She probably needs lots of time to think about her life, or maybe she wants to enjoy some peace for now.
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a week is a lot. . atleast for me it is. . away from her, its hell long. . never been away from her lik this. . it hurts. . i'm gonna give her whatever space she needs, its her desire. . but i'm never gonna leave her. . . she'll understand. .
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a week is a lot. . atleast for me it is. . away from her, its hell long. . never been away from her lik this. . it hurts. . i'm gonna give her whatever space she needs, its her desire. . but i'm never gonna leave her. . . she'll understand. .
Seriously. What is the matter with you? Do you realize how many times you have said that you love her and that you're never gonna leave her. We get it. She was there for you in your time of need and now you don't want to leave her during her time of difficulty. But to be honest, I don't think I've seen such an intense friendship between a guy and a girl. I haven't talked to one of my closest friends (someone I've known since first grade)....in 3 months and I'm not in any pain.
Most friends can survive without each other for one week and they generally don't use the intense praise that you use. Instead of reflecting and analyzing your feelings for her, you just keep coming on this thread to repeat the same filmi lines.
Who knows? Either your "sweetheart", your "sun", the one who "loved you the most", the one whom you want to "take into your arms"........is avoiding you because you come across too strong......OR........she too thinks you're obtuse.
Others also suggested you might have a crushy wushy on her. But I was the one who used the word “subconscious.” That someone be me.
It might have made you confused, but it least it got you thinking 
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sk3wlboy, does your mom know about any of this? what about her family? don't they even wonder about the closeness between you two?
sk3wlboy, does your mom know about any of this? what about her family? don't they even wonder about the closeness between you two?
I asked him if he's talked to his friends about this and if they ever had doubts about his closeness with this girl. He said that his friends are too far away to tell.
It's possible that HER mom could have noticed the closeness and doesn't like it and is pressuring her to stay away.
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her mom and my mom, both know tat we'Re so close, but they don't care. . .
her mom and my mom, both know tat we'Re so close, but they don't care. . .
Do you have any siblings or cousins who have ever wondered about your relationship with her? Basically, is there anyone ELSE in your life besides US who have questioned your relationship with her (in other words thought that it may be more than just a friendship)?
WHat about her previous boyfriend? Did he noticed anything?
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the 'mom' is definitely not the problem guys. .
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i hated her boyfriend. . i kept away from him. . . and nope, i have no idea about what her ex boyfriend name is. . .
i hated her boyfriend. . i kept away from him. . . and nope, i have no idea about what her ex boyfriend name is. . .
The name here is not relevant. Was there anybody at all who maybe teased you about having a crush on her? Anybody who thought your friendship was a bit too close? A family member (dad, siblings, cousins) or classmates or friends?
And why did you hate her boyfriend? Did you hate him because he was a jerk and didn't respect her or hurt her? OR....did you hate him because you didn't want her to be with any guy? Because, keep in mind, that she didn't like you hanging out with any girl. SO, if you also didn't like her hanging out with any guy....then your similar actions could possibly mean mutual interest.