Gaana sun nahin sakte to koi baat nahi. Gun gunaalo. 
That’s what people in laaaaw do. 
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^lol RV, i juss love reading ur replies :D
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Maybe yes, i need someone to drop an acme weight on me. . but u know, i had the first loving person in my life, and i was so damn excited, i'm like this. . 'sleepless nights' refer to those days when i suffered from insomnia. . i don't find it really unusual to want to hug her. . i talk hours on de phone, cuz she's de oly one who calls me. . i got tat bit of poetic comparison in me, i use it often. . . so is this bad, or is it worse?
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come on Ladlee, i'm not used to this kinda stuff alrit. . . just wanted to know if its bad or worse. . . . ,
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umm ok...i dunno whatelse should i say...:/
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come on. . ur advice about how to get her back wit me?
Sorry for interrupting again, but judging by the way she's walked out on you, i think the only way you can "help her overcome the fear of expressing her love" to you is by using some rope, some duct tape, and a loving hand
I can relate, i too have been in your situation, but i found out that sane people really mean it when they say goodbye. If they change their mind later, or are suppressing their feelings, then they're just messed up in the head, and not worth worrying about anyways. Because even if you get back on the track with them, its not gonna last for long. Rozana kay dramay lagay rahein gay.
By the way, what happened before she flipped and sent you that final message a week ago?
You were planning to move to bangalore together, did you say or suggest something which might have upset her ?
Could it be your temper ?
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I am definitely dumber after reading this thread.
OMG… i am virtually dying with laughter…
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no yaar i didn tel anythin tat upset her, actually we were talkin lik usual tat day mornin. . de evenin, she sent me de last msg. . she 've sent me stuff lik i won't txt u idiot bye. . but it was just temporary anger. . she gets back at me wit a hug and says 'i'm sorry if i hurt u dear, i was crazy'. . so as u say, if i get back in track, we figured out how, so u tel me how to make it last long. . but i'm not bothered about it, cuz it damn will last long. . she's 'my' sweetie. . the oly one who loved me. . i'm just worried why she did this to me. . . it really hurts pal. .
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"we were talkin lik usual tat day mornin. . de evenin, she sent me de last msg. . she 've sent me stuff lik i won't txt u idiot bye. . but it was just temporary anger"
what was she angry about ?
normal people don't just snap like that
what did you say before she got angry?....share it with us, no matter whether you think it was offensive or not
Rozana kay dramay lagay rahein gay.
That is a possibility.
Are you sure the trouble she's going through might only be her mom? It could be drugs, a new abusive boyfriend, etc. Something reeeeeally serious she doesn't want you to know about.
OH GOD…you’ve said that line sooooo many times. It even rhymes.
Never seen a guy use a single term of endearment and a single emotional line so often in one thread. Even more so after telling us that you don’t see her in **“that” **way. Which makes me wonder, are you trolling?
Pick another term.
And the whole idea of “the only one who loved me” is a but much IMO. Surely there are other people in your family and among your friends who also love you. But not everyone shows their love and affection in the same way.
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what do u mean by 'trolling' eh. . ? plz red, don't insult me in tat way. . sorry guys cudn get here last nit, got kicked outta home for going out. . so back in de topic, i'm sure she's not on drugs, and not an abusive boyfriend. . whats more serious? um, she could be under emotional stress, but i hell don't know what it is, if i knew, this all would've been solved by now. or, is there a possibility tat a girl can stay away from a person because she finds the person loving her tooooooooooo much. . ? or do they think in this view or anythin els similiar. . ?
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emotional stress could be due to anything really. it could be financial issues, failing out of schools, a fight with a friend, family member getting divorced, etc.
it is a possibility she thinks you're TOO close to her, TOO dependent upon her, not letting her breathe. But that's what you need to find out. And you got kicked out of home?- so where are you? Did your parents know why you left?
^Agree. SB…you should listen to Soundarya. Soundi…lead the way :k:
Yes, to answer your question SB…it IS possible that a girl might avoid a guy because he LOVES her too much and perhaps she feels overwhelmed by this affectionate emotions.
You’ve used the word LOVE soooooooo many times with us STRANGERS on Gupshup that it is wholly possible that you may be coming on too strong with her. You’ve even gushed about her sooooooooooo many times that it might even overwhelm her.
At the same time, as Soundarya suggested, there could be other problems (education, money, divorce, medical illness, etc) that could be plaguing her mind.
Listen…we’re not saying that it is 100% definite that she has a crush on you. And we’re not saying that it’s 100% definite that she’s uncomfortable with your strong display of affection. We’re strangers. We don’t know this girl. We don’t know her. We don’t know how you both act around each other. We can only provide you with GUESSES and not definite or exact answers.
The only person who can tell you what’s truly bothering her…is her. And unless she opens up to you, you’ll never find out what the problem is. So, you’ll have to talk to her calmly without imposing yourself on her and showing her that you’re there for her if she needs you and that in the meantime you respect her need for privacy. That’s it. Not much else you can do. Unless you know somebody close to her (such as a mutual friend) that that’s trustworthy and can provide you a clue about what’ s bugging her. You’re going to continue asking us to give you more ideas to get her back and to figure out what’s troubling…but what more can we suggest besides talking to her/respecting her privacy?
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isn't this thread over yet?
How obvious is it that you like her?
Your posts are dripping with love and its getting nauseous. Is this your first ever crush? The withdrawl symptoms are obvious.
Man up instead of acting all melodramatic and admit it you like her and go from there insteatd of acting like a love-sick puppy and no offence but if you aren’t going to admit you’re lying to yourself and wasting everyone’s time here too.
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