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gawd you love her too. your posts are dripping with love and crush and like or whatever.
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^ I agree. I think he reaaally likes her, but hasn't realized it yet. It seems like he's in intense pain without her. I think sk3wlboy has a little sk3wlboy crush on her :)
How much older is she??
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grade 9 vs grade 12?
^ I agree. I think he reaaally likes her, but hasn't realized it yet. It seems like he's in intense pain without her. I think sk3wlboy has a little sk3wlboy crush on her :)
How much older is she??
You know, I was wondering the same thing earlier.....maybe he has subconscious feelings for her that he doesn't want to entertain for fear of family/age/society, etc. He considers her the "sun"....has praised her so often and so strongly........praise that you don't always hear from people about their friends in general.
You laaaaw her. The foundation of love is fraaaanship :p And fraanship CAN develop into something more.
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I must be careful of what i might say, els it can take things from bad to worse. . i've never hurt her, or intended to hurt. . but i'll make it clear if i had hurt her in anyway. . Okay, then what els can i take heed of?
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Actually she's 3yrs elder than me. . . and hey!!! Subconscious feelings of love???? no yaar. . i'm sure its not romantic love from my side. . its just tat she's the oly one who loved me even in my times of distress. . thats why i have her first in my heart. .
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^ 3 years is not a huge difference . Think about it .
Maybe she doesn’t only love you in your times of distress. Maybe she loves you in general…all the time. Why is that so hard for you to fathom? We may not be 100% correct, but what we’re suggesting is not impossible either.
So, she’s three years older. It’s not like you call her Baji…er…do you?
There are so many relationships where the guy is younger. Islamically, it’s jayaz. Hmm, I wonder how you’d feel if she got a boyfriend tomorrow…or got engaged. I wonder if she’d feel jealous at the thought of you with some girl. 
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okay, maybe 3 yrs is not quite large. . . but still. . . . . . . u know i'm not used to lookin her in tat view, maybe what u guys are sayin is true, she has a crush on me. . i should help her move on ryt. . . ? obviously i'm not de best futur she can possibly have. . ok i confess, i wanted to move in and stay wit her, cuz i missed her a lot. . actually we were having plans of going to bangalore and stay together for my further studies. . but unfortunately we had this incident. . . :(
okay, maybe 3 yrs is not quite large. . . but still. . . . . . . u know i'm not used to lookin her in tat view, maybe what u guys are sayin is true, she has a crush on me. . i should help her move on ryt. . . ? obviously i'm not de best futur she can possibly have. . ok i confess, i wanted to** move in and stay wit her, cuz i missed her a lot.** . actually we were having plans of going to bangalore and stay together for my further studies. . but unfortunately we had this incident. . . :(
You know there ARE halal ways of moving in with her on a more long term basis...cough....cough.
Perhaps you were so distressed with her problems......that it got in the way of you seeing her in a romantic way. Ab jab woh tumhari zindagi main nahin hai........you're going crazy.
^Her decision to avoid you could actually be HER WAY of "moving on". IF you get in her face and insist upon hanging out with her.........it could be harder for her to move on.
Tell me something, before coming to GS.........did you discuss this problem with your friends? If so, what did they suggest? Did they also suggest the possibility that she just MIGHT have a crush on you? Have any of your friends noticed this or teased you about it? Sometimes friends can see things more clearly than we can. And is the first time that you've ever thought of the possibility that she might have a crush on you?
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i see what u are suggestin redvelvet, and yeah once i had a date wit a girl, and oh my god she was furious on me. . i mean she was lik 'how dare u idiot go out wit a girl'. . she generally checks in my mail, and there was a mail from this girl sayin tat the girl loved me, and voila, we had yet another fight. . she didn cool down until i said i won't date anymore girls. . so could this be an explanation to her being possessive on me? And she's tryin to fight her emotions. . ?
Sk3wlboy…you’re still a boy. Several girls who have responded to this thread (and they have mostly been girls) have suggested the possibility that she might like you. I think women are better at understanding how other women think. DUH…if she’s getting “furious” with you for dating girls…then that should make you suspicious about her feelings.
Look, if she had told you that she doesn’t want you to date A PARTICULAR girl because she wasn’t good for you…then I can understand because she’s trying to be a protective friend. But if she’s preventing you from dating ALL GIRLS.…then something is fishy here. Before I was only guessing that she has a crush on you, but now that you have mentioned that she gets upset if you see other girls…my suspicions are stronger.
Sheesh, this sounds like a movie. Although I’ll admit, i rather like movies where subconscious feelings are not realized until later.
Go watch the drama Vasl.
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Oh no, i never discuss these wit any of my classmates, and my true friends live far away, i told them that i'm in this situation, but since they've never seen me wit her, they couldn suggest any. . . i'm not gonna insist her to hang out wit me, but u know to just keep in touch. . i can't afford to lose her. . maybe its this subconscious romantic love stuff, but i'm not sure. . . i'm crazy. . . . .
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sk3wlboy, if you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
do you think about her almost everyday? I don't think about my best friends everyday.
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she gets upset when i see other girls. . . generally she doesn't want me to date any girls. . . it is fishy. . . . . . . . yeah, i'm still a boy tats why i'm seekin good advice. . .
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sk3wlboy . . . a song dedicated to you 
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^ LOL
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Um, i just got into my 18. . . To be honest, I think about her for a lot of time of the day. . Mostly durin de sleepless nitz. . But i oly look forward to txt her all day. . (she does reply me all day). . To say the truth, she's de oly one to who i've talked hours on the phone. .
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Cut it out guys, i can't hear songs or so on the internet when i surf in my phone
So if we’re right… she might think you’re too young for her but at the same time she likes you a lot. if you’re 18, she’s 21, then you still have time to prove yourself to her if you eventually realize you like her. But you gotta mature fast, finish school, and prove that you might be right for her. Be that strong person she can depend upon.
In the mean time, listen to this song…