Being Avoided, I Don't Wanna Be

[redvelvet]

@sk3wlboy

She doesn’t have a boyfriend. . I mean she had one, but he ditched her, i helped her get over tat. . Her mom is a mean lady. . She hurts. . Its her character u know, stayin away when she’s too much stressed out. . I somehow manage to get her out of her tensions, mostly it gets solved. . I rang up her cousin, he told she hasn’t returned his calls too. . I’m sorry fellas i’m a lot concerned. . She’s my only special person. . To everyone else in this world i have my own attitude. . I have that self respect **** in me more than a lot. . Its no use havin self respect wit the one who helped me get it. . It’d be like the moon sayin to the sun ‘i look more beautiful than u’. .

You’re rather poetic about this friendship

Okay, so she doesn’t have boyfriend and you helped her get over that. So, assuming that the boyfriend is NOT the problem…then he would not be a reason for her to avoid you. Assuming that her mom really is cruel…even then that doesn’t seem like a reason for her to avoid you…unless her mom has threatened her not to speak to you for some reason. Maybe mom is searching rishtas for her and doesn’t want her daughter to talk to a guy because that might ruin her reputation and make it harder for her to get a rishta.

^But if mom’s not causing a problem…then what else could it be? Financial problems doesn’t seem to make sense. Seriously, sk3wlboy, she wants to cut off all communication with you and I think that it’s either due to 2 reasons:

1. She may be receiving some sort of threat or pressure to stop talking to you…perhaps from her family.

2. If she wants to stop talking to you…then it seems to imply that talking to you/keeping contact with you is a strong emotional issue for her. If she wants to avoid it, that means that she wants to maybe eliminate that emotional stress. Which is what still makes me wonder if she has a crush on you (regardless of her age).