Re: Behaviour of the Wife
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Re: Behaviour of the Wife
ok at some point you have to stop letting a bunch of forumwalay running your life. you have no serious issues, just work it out with the wife like two grown ups. stop updating us!!!!
as appropriate and valuable as your suggestion is queer.....the guy is actually NOT following the advice of the forumwalay cuz if he was he would have had a significant number of very direct and concise conversations with his wife and her family.
Re: Behaviour of the Wife
ok at some point you have to stop letting a bunch of forumwalay running your life. you have no serious issues, just work it out with the wife like two grown ups. stop updating us!!!!
Righto! You really don’t have much of problems. Initially almost every couple faces some sort difference in premature marriage life. For some things get sorted hurriedly and for other slowly. It all depends on how you both take care of each other’s emotions.
Re: Behaviour of the Wife
I have spoken directly to the wife and will continue to do so InshaAllah.
Regarding the family the only person was the mother or the father. I rang the mother 7 times in two days but she never replied. My wife actually stated that she will be ignoring you for mentioning that we are having difficulty in front of her siblings.
Weird situation.
as appropriate and valuable as your suggestion is queer.....the guy is actually NOT following the advice of the forumwalay cuz if he was he would have had a significant number of very direct and concise conversations with his wife and her family.
Re: Behaviour of the Wife
I have spoken directly to the wife and will continue to do so InshaAllah.
Regarding the family the only person was the mother or the father. I rang the mother 7 times in two days but she never replied. My wife actually stated that she will be ignoring you for mentioning that we are having difficulty in front of her siblings.
Weird situation.
did you actually mention something in front of someone other than just the MIL or FIL?
if so, that was not a cool move.
Re: Behaviour of the Wife
My my my
Najeeb, You would have found a meaningful solution to your non-issues had you been spending all this time with her instead of discussing it with strangers.
Remember you can not talk out of problem, you have to get out of problem ( if there are problems, I don't see).
Come on your newly married, it hasn't been long since you've been married. These are early days, maybe she is shy about what to call your mother. I'm sure she won't sleep in that long once she gets a job or when u guys have kids. The lead up to weddings can be so stressful and the adjustments after marriage can be daunting and it all takes time to get used to it all. If some things bother you, you have to talk to her. Don't be angry at get, tell her things kindly. Let her know that you think it would be nice if she telephoned your mother from her parents house at least once or what ever u like. Clear communication is key to a successful marriage. But be kind about it, I'm sure she is not purposely acting in a way to irritate you. Boost her confidence and sweety advise her.