Behaviour of the Wife

[Paheli00]

Re: Behaviour of the Wife

@thegreatesone

Reading all of your comments to OP I got sooo ANGRY! What the hell??!!! Sound like you guys want him to get a divorce! Are you guys really so evil that you want to ruin that mans life? Come on its his MOM nowhere in the Quran or Hadith it is written that the daughter inlaw should live with his parents If she doesn’t want to! It’s actually the husband duty to get his wife another house if she doesn’t want to live with his parents! It’s his duty to go with his mom to do all the stuff he mention not hers!!! That’s what Islam teaches us and I can give u guys proof if you want that or just ask a imam I’d u don’t believe me!
By the way I am not saying I agree with his wife she should try to get along with his mom but if she doesn’t want to he CAN’T make her of he is a Muslim husband that’s a fact and I don’t care what the Pakistani culture says! I really hate people who divorce their wife because she doesn’t take care of his mom or dad!

LOL…cute! Sounds like the rants of a teenager.

No one is saying that the wife doesn’t have a right to live separately. And no one is telling OP to “make” his wife do anything. Actually, if I recall correctly, OP said in one of his posts that he plans on buying a separate house but needs to save up money. But that’s not the issue. The issue here is that the OP’s wife has a total lack of respect for her marriage.

If she had a problem living with his mother, the she should’ve said that 8 months ago! That’s what irritates me. Frigging desi women who know BEFORE signing the nikah papers that they’ll be living with their in-laws. They keep their trap shut then. Yet after the nikah, all of a sudden they want their own house, and rest of their “Islamic Rights”, and poor guy is stuck in the middle. And like I said before…I dislike my MIL yet even I don’t complain about holding shopping bags on her behalf! That’s COMMON courtesy towards ANY elderly person.

At the end of the day…the wife can demand her “Islamic rights” all she wants. But the fact remains that Islam doesn’t allow us to divorce our parents. You can hate it all you want but Islam gives husbands the right to divorce their wives period. No where in Islam does it say that a husband can not divorce his wife b/c she is annoyed by his mother and the rest of his family, and wants him to devote 24/7 to HER only.