Re: Behaviour of the Wife
Besides work I spend most of my time with my wife. If going out then it is only us two and even inside I am normally helping her. My mum only called us downstairs because we said we would be watching something on tv and she obviously wanted to watch it with the both of us.
Regarding time spent together, we went out early Saturday afternoon together and came back rather late in the evening. On Sunday we had already though of somewhere to spend the day but she wanted to stay in. I advised that it is Sunday and normally all my siblings will attempt to visit my mum on this day but she was ok with it.
Sunday evening two of my sisters families appeared about 4pm and after half an hour the wife disappeared and in tears stated that she wanted a quiet night in and we as a family are too loud. To which I replied, firstly we are all aware that my siblings were coming and who after 90 minutes disappeared back to their homes and also that my family is loud as are nearly all the families that we know as you have multiple conversations going on and people laughing etc.
She knows I love her and I would do anything for her and I agree that she is most likely depressed but like Paheli said I need to take her out and have a serious chat.