Behaviour of the Wife

pakistanimard · December 3, 2012, 7:20pm

Re: Behaviour of the Wife

The bits in red.

**She stated that ‘I do not have that relationship with your mum and why should i bother with formalities’

She stated that why do people ask me for help e.g. painting. I stated that family is family and so are friends and when they ask you determine whether you can help and you go and assist. She replied but **they have their own partners and you shouldn’t need to help anyone.

I asked her regarding her expectations of marriage and she said that she came here and wants her own routineand not to follow a pre-existing one. That she is not a wife from Pakistan and if that is what I wanted then I should have gone back home. She stated that she will do what she wants to do and it is upto her. She isnt a SAHW. I stated that she is as she doesnt want to work, gym or voluntary

**I asked about making her husband breakfast and she said Islamically I do not have to do anything and I do enough, which she didn’t get into. But she will make breakfast for me on my working from home day. The other days she can try but not promising anything.

****She stated that ‘I do not have that relationship with your mum and why should i bother with formalities’

She stated that I am like martyr who likes to help my family and I shouldn’t do as i have my own life

She then stated that she will always go home a week a month and whenever she wants as it is her family and she has a responsibility to visit and when she needs a break she will just go**