Re: Behaviour of the Wife
The way I see it is that what she said was unspeakable and unthinkable but I do not do tit for tat with anyone and I now that I have spoken to her I will try to constantly speak to her and mention everything about what she needs to do for at least a little while and if no changes then something will have to be done.
Basically I let everything out, more than what I have explained here and I will have to see for a little while how it pans out.
I can just tell her to leave but something tells me that the easiest option is hardly ever the correct option.
Regarding going abroad, its not going to happen. She knows if she goes without me then there’s no option of return. The only option she has is if she wants to visit with me as I mentioned that she is not travelling without a mehram so its either me or someone else from her family.
The funny thing is she is externally in line with Islam. She only goes out with hijaab and suitable attire on, prays her namaaz and is genuinely interested with the deen. I just don’t know where this selfish, childish, bratty side comes from.
Regarding what I said earlier about trying a different approach, I am going to do what I want to do and not be nice and just be stern. Will it me anywhere? Allah knows best. At least my heart will be content that I exhausted all my options.
At the moment I want to know what ideas about Pakistan she still has as her mother has not gone yet and there is still time for her to book her ticket.