Re: Behaviour of the Wife
I’m not sure why you don’t want her to go. What will keeping her behind accomplish?
The purpose of her going on the trip is entirely irrelevant and making a big deal out of it will only add unnecessary disagreement to an already convoluted situation.
If you are not concerned with that then why mention it? You could have simply said that she is at her parents’ and will return this weekend. Obviously you are either concerned or you want to bring it to the attention of the rest of us that she is not someone that can be trusted.
So which is it?
You said way too much in your response and you said the wrong thing. You should have simply typed the last line and that’s it.
Since you brought up the security issue, she was able to use it against you. Like I said, you said too much. You should have simply said that I don’t want to discuss this on the phone/text and let’s talk about it face to face on the weekend.
Because you entertained her she was able to lay down the law…very conveniently done in a text…easy way out.