Behaviour of the Wife

[Muzna]

Re: Behaviour of the Wife

@flawedsoul

Like others have said - talk to her parents in confidence. Tell them everything and how you are trying to make it work. They need to know. Esp. before it escalates into something or before your wife says anything. because if the wife does complain about you, then you’ll already look bad in her parents’ eyes. So talk to them right away. And also tell them why you don’t want their daughter going to Pakistan.

Actually I have to vehemently disagree with this.
Don’t include the father in the conversation.
It is very possible that FIL would take offence at any suggestion that his baby is not behaving well.
MIL is likely to be more receptive.

Save the conversation with the FIL for a time when it becomes more serious.

I’m not suggesting that the matter is not serious now, but you have to keep a trump card up your sleeve sometimes…
(sadly that’s the manipulative side of me coming through…)