Behaviour of the Wife

[najeeb786]

Re: Behaviour of the Wife

As an update. Nothing much happened after I chatted to her last until this week when she asked me that her parents are going abroad and she wants to go with them.

I said to her that I believe it is not appropriate that she go at this time when we have so many issues. She mentioned that her main issue is the house and people coming and going. I said that her behaviour isn’t right and she went off on one. Mentioned that she does so much for everyone and my extended family and i am still not letting her go. Mentioned that the house issue will still be there when she gets back (1 month) and what difference does it make.

I stated that i have never stopped her from going to her mums but going to Pakistan at this particular moment is not appropriate.

Suffice to say since then she isn’t speaking to me. Nobody else has realised and its been a full evening so far. Don’t know what else to do. Constant tears and no speaking.

I know if i didn’t say anything then she would always get what she wanted and its definitely not the right time because of our relationship.

@Paheli00

:k: In a marriage, both spouses need to compromise and should be willing to put in en effort to adapt to their situation. Events such as loss of a job, illness/death, having a child etc…all these require sacrifices and compromises. Its ridiculous for your wife to run away to her parents so often or lock herself in her bedroom and refuse to make the effort necessary. Especially when you have told her that the current living situation is temporary.

As a relatively new bride, she should’ve been on her best behavior during the last 8 months at her MIL’s house. And if this is her best behavior…lol…then I pity you for what you’ll experience 5 years from now! If her attitude/behavior doesn’t change, then even when you move out…she’ll find something else to make her miserable.