Ghost14
February 11, 2014, 6:25pm
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Re: beginning to think its all me.
Nadz, I’ve told you this before, as have many, many others: you need to learn to love yourself first. Until you to truly are at peace with your life, your attitude towards others will never change or improve.
You need to come to terms with the source of your bitterness, resentment, negativity, insecurities…whatever it is…and then let.it.go.
Until you do that wholeheartedly, nothing is going to change.
And on a side note..yes, you were extremely rude for no reason what so ever..I’m sure your husband has tired of this behavior..why are you ulta getting upset at him for talking down to you? Didn’t you do the same?
You catch more flies with honey….try changing your attitude and the way you react and see how it in turn changes him
This is very true in my experience. I’ve also seen this point reiterated in various books (7 Habits). It’s astounding how your attitude affects your perception, the things that come your way, and how others react to you.