Before you turned the lights off on your Suhag Raat

[Paheli00]

Re: Before you turned the lights off on your Suhag Raat

@Majazi_Khuda

I want to keep the topic clean … but I want to make some observations ..

What are your thoughts on this.

**How much is too much when it comes to wedding ceremonies? **

**Should not **consummation of marriage be the most important thing on that very night of your life and be give due priority?

Firstly, I’m very amused by the fact that with ALL the other things that’re happening in todays world…with ALL other other things that are part of a wedding/married life…you’re making “observations” about other people’s sexual activity (or lack of) in THEIR wedding night.

1. It’s upto an individual couple to decide what’s “too much” when it comes to their wedding ceremonies. There is no 1 particular way that’s “right”. I know couples who did 5 full days of non-stop “events”. On the other hand, I know couples that just had 1 single reception.

2. Again…back to a couples individual priorities. Whether or not sex should be given a high priority on the wedding night is upto the couple themselves and I see no reason for others to force their views on this.

Even without all the fancy wedding ceremonies…even with a simple nikah/dinner where the couple is in the bedroom by 9:00 p.m…what if one of them has a headache? Does a simple nikah GUARANTEE that the couple will still not be tired (physically or emotionally)? What if the couple is just not “in the mood”?

My personal views: Let other couples worry about their own wedding night and what happens between them behind closed doors. You worry/think about your own wedding night and what’s a priority to YOU.