Re: Bed!!!
Why would a normal, well-adjusted person do that to anyone else? Are you sure you’re not reading too much into this? Weddings are usually really stressful to organize and plan; you should try to find the good in everything. Even if your MIL isn’t as good to you as she was to your SIL, you’re still a lot better off than some other girls. You have a loving husband and a supportive parents.
Try to stay happy and not overthink things. Who knows? Maybe she just didn’t have time to do enough research and just sent you the first link she found without finding out a whole lot about the quality of the furniture. Try sending her some pictures of stuff you like and ask her for her opinion. I found that my MIL really appreciated it when I asked her opinion. And it wasn’t a big deal because I often ask my mom or sisters for their opinion even on little things like, and that made my MIL feel more included in my life/decisions.
Yes that could be a possibility. I’ve been very insecure due to my sil.. And maybe I’m just reading too much into it. I will post with updates
I’ve figured it’s best to have no contact with spouse before marriage. Avoids unnecessary fights. We r both so stressed out.