different perspectives...different views...if aunties make u uncomfortable...then how about your friends..? what do they have against white skin? why they keep on harping about you getting a tan? seems like you have no problem with what your friends think and say but the same does make u feel uncomfortable when it comes from desi aunties...seems like our ppl have some shameless agenda against desis that they will stop at nothing to demean and put them down. no matter how low you yourself have to go for that.
Did I say that it doesn't make me uncomfortable when my friends say I need to get a tan? No I didn't. All I said was that their views contrast deeply with those of the desi community. In addition, I was not demeaning anyone. I was simply referring to the views of the desi community as these are the main ideas under discussion. Perhaps you failed to effectively understand the essence of what I am saying. Furthermore, kindly refrain from making assumptions. It is inappropriate of you to state that "our ppl have some shameless agend against desis" as the fact of the matter is that a lot of desis do prefer girls who are gori, thin, beautiful, etc etc. What is the harm in pointing this out in a topic clearly related to such ideas? In no way does this demean the desi community. It's like stating that the sky is blue. It's a fact and if stating facts makes you so defensive maybe you are simply unable to accept the truth of the matter.