Its not a concept in pakistan, its what muslims generally beleive, that death is from allah, and everyones time is written. this is a faith we have, and what griveing people hold onto. atheists would call it a punishment, people who have no faith in life after death. we know whats going to happen after death, as our faith tells us, and because of that belief we move on. to be honest, i would prefer to have the thinking that his/her time was up, allah knows best. then to grive forever and cry forever and keep asking `why``…its our belief that helps us move on. and i dont think we should knock it.