PG. i think its in our own power 2 feel insulted/not at what some1 has said. u know the situation, u know that that guy is just as much 2 blame as u r 4 this love. guyz r generally attached 2 their mother, especially if hes a mama's boy..in such a cse then it is hard 4 him 2 go against his mom at least initally.
when u do love marraige, i know 4rm waht iv seen that those girlz have 2 go thru a lot.especailly if the guyz mom is a tough cookie. ,my friend, she had 2 go thru a lot. not on ly did she have 2 bear her the guyz mom's tane and ressentment but her own mother's insults that she as awara, besharam etc.. and her brother even beat her bad. nd she also got her izaat cut in2 so many pireces when some family firends staying at her house saw her with the guy in teh mall, and htey spread the news about her like wild fire with extra mirch masala. nd soemtimes even the guy would get mad at her.
nd there was also resistance 4rm him 4 a while bcs of his mom..even though i know how much he liked her or loved her(i dunt about the idfference in these bcs frankly i dont believe in love but back 2 the point). but u know what? she STUCK THRU IT! she never gave up...she was nad is 1 very strong larki. she gave the guy an ultimatum that either u marry me or i marry soem1 else.. nd then he finally got his mum 2 agree and hten they had marriage. even after marriage she had 2 tkae double wrth 4rm her mil and sil who both got jealous of her..but that happens in arranged marriages 2.
but anywayz, u wanna go thru with it..if u think it is worth it honey then stick it out ALL THE WAY! if u dont think it is worth it 4 u 2 fight it out..then let him go..nd get married somewhere else.
good luck