bazare lerki !

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Pity that sons aren't either...but only in comparison to bahus!

Guess what, no one is an angel. Only little innocent kids are. Awwwww!

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and bahus who are daughters of someone are angels compared to their husbands. its a two-way road massi jee.

n i don't believe in innocence.

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Re: bazare lerki !

The other situation is unfortunately more common. But yes, each kid is special to their parents in comparison to their spouse. But of course.

Saieen, bachay innocent hotay haiN...until they grow up.

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Re: bazare lerki !

Izzat or Zillat ALLAH SWT k haath main hai...hum ko wo kerna cheye hai jis ka humain hukam hoo

if you can talk to guys being remain limits (not forgetting ALLAH SWT), educational stuff or some kind of assistance or guidance than you shouldn't be ashamed of your actions.

cuz society is no more saath pardoon main bethana...but it is also not like act like a jahil who first time go on chat and agree to act like a total loser

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hotay hon ge but i don't believe in innocence..be it kids...teenagers...adults...budhay or dead.

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typical ratta-rataya jawab.

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app nay bhi ratti ratayee baat he boli hai

ps. i edited it...so there is more to what i wanted to say :)

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I know there are many things that guys do and get away with or are expected from them but it is a totally different mindset that comes into play when a girl does the same...

I agree with MKD about double standard in this situation... In my opinion such is not even allowed for guys as well but it's a big ask for a whole cultural change... we can start it from the personal level... Reflecting upon our ownselves is not something that others can regulate you know :)

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How?
Surah Aal-e-Imran: Aayat 26 ... it's a fact from Quran

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Just because you don’t believe it doesn’t mean it isn’t there!
When you will hold a little baby in your arms one day, Insha’Allah, and it looks into your eyes with awe, you will understand.

Phir mujhay PM kar kay bataa deyna ki massi jee aap sahi keh rahi theeN..
:snooty:

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Re: bazare lerki !

hmmm so wat do we have here??:chai:

lets put the blame game on the side for a minute

and think bout those 2 ppl

may be this all started for fun then they got serious

yeah yeah i know its the girls fault cuz she even talked to that guy she shudnt have its such a sin girls shud only get married wherever ttheir parents say they will

but lets say she did she commited a sin and she fell in luv (another sin, even bigger)

now wat??

shudnt the guy do sumthing bout it??

well im sure fone par to us ne bare promises kiye honge then jab parents kuch kehte hain then y doesnt he defend that girl??

y doesnt he say tha i know that girl and she isnt bad or watever
and i was also talking to her so it makes me bad too

and for the ppl who PG mentioned that they say " aise larki" i mean wat u mean by aisi larki??:dumbstruck:

i just have 4 words for those ppl" ghatiya mentality wale log"

they cant think out of their box they have really tiny brains

:chai:

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PG. i think its in our own power 2 feel insulted/not at what some1 has said. u know the situation, u know that that guy is just as much 2 blame as u r 4 this love. guyz r generally attached 2 their mother, especially if hes a mama's boy..in such a cse then it is hard 4 him 2 go against his mom at least initally.

when u do love marraige, i know 4rm waht iv seen that those girlz have 2 go thru a lot.especailly if the guyz mom is a tough cookie. ,my friend, she had 2 go thru a lot. not on ly did she have 2 bear her the guyz mom's tane and ressentment but her own mother's insults that she as awara, besharam etc.. and her brother even beat her bad. nd she also got her izaat cut in2 so many pireces when some family firends staying at her house saw her with the guy in teh mall, and htey spread the news about her like wild fire with extra mirch masala. nd soemtimes even the guy would get mad at her.

nd there was also resistance 4rm him 4 a while bcs of his mom..even though i know how much he liked her or loved her(i dunt about the idfference in these bcs frankly i dont believe in love but back 2 the point). but u know what? she STUCK THRU IT! she never gave up...she was nad is 1 very strong larki. she gave the guy an ultimatum that either u marry me or i marry soem1 else.. nd then he finally got his mum 2 agree and hten they had marriage. even after marriage she had 2 tkae double wrth 4rm her mil and sil who both got jealous of her..but that happens in arranged marriages 2.

but anywayz, u wanna go thru with it..if u think it is worth it honey then stick it out ALL THE WAY! if u dont think it is worth it 4 u 2 fight it out..then let him go..nd get married somewhere else.

good luck

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Re: bazare lerki !

I do not think its larkiyon ka fault at all. Their choice of person they fall in love can be wrong but even then, you never know. its actually those buzdil mama's boys whose mothers are too over whelming of their sons as to call the other girl as bazari larhki or something, very much unaware of the fact their own daughter could have been in the same place. Hypocrisy and double standards. This is it all. Pitty.

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:S aap jazbati hoo ggain ziada

:rotato: larkiyoon ke izzat is like a glass.schora sa ghaag bhi dkhta hai

kisi ko kehtay suna tha:hmmm:

:snooty:but girls shud think abt thier parents when they take such step.ek ka trust hasil karnay ke liye kitnoon ka trust torti hain:rolleyes:

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Re: bazare lerki !

**bazari lerki...
gher ka khota...

staring...shikra as bazari lerki...saieen as gher ka khota...

**
ajj hi vaikho...

PS: vaikhnay se jo bhi nuQsan hoga...hum us ke zimadar na hon ge.

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Re: bazare lerki !

main lerkee ki k kissi bhi ammal ko yahan defend nahi ker raheee ....

na main is baat per zor day rahee hon k lerka nay us say shaadi kion na kee

lerkee ghalt thee ya sahee is ki baaz puras ka haq lerke k parents ko tha

*LERKOON ki MAAON ko yeh haq kissi nay nahi diya k woh apnay baitooN ko to naraz na kernay k der say unhain kuch nahi kehtee ..lakin LERKIOON k kirdaar ko maskh ker dayteen hain *

merd mazloom ho is main koi shak nahi lakin buzdil na ho

*app k halat aisay nahi k app commitment nibha sakain its ok > go with ur parents ..doesnt matter *

lakin app k gher say us k ley jo ghalat alfaz ka istimaal ho raha hay us ko defend kerna app ka kaam hay

jin ko mere post jazbaate lagee woh bhi sahee hain ...

lakin main us lerkee k kerb ko mehsoos keye baghair nahi reh saktee jis ko sirf is ley BAZAREE keh diya gaya k us nay kissi ka aytbaar ker liya

do u know what mean by bazaari ?

*yeh lerki ko hee nahi us k parents ko bhi gaale hay *

*wohee amaal app ka baita bhi kerta hay lakin app us ko MASOOM or bhoola bhala keh ker bayqasoor ker daytay ho *

........

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Re: bazare lerki !

and wat is izzat btw???

i never got it??

if a girl is talking to guy

lets forget bout the guy

ok lets say she fell in luv so is it a crime or a sin???

sum1 plz explain it to me???

and if the parents find out bout it then isnt it their duty to know wat their kids want and then try to do sumthing bout it

like try to get those ppl together rather than calling them bazaari or chichore

i mean wat is it??

is luving sum1 a crime if is then there shud be a punishment if it isnt then plz keep ur butt out of it :chai:

and if a girl or a guy likes sum1 i dont see how kisi ki bhi izzat chaknachoor ho rahi hai:rolleyes:

i think ppl need to know the meaning of izzat first of all :grumpy:

ok that it for now b4 i startinf using bad words cuz im pissed :chai:

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Izzat- jo kuch logon ke bohat baari si hoti hai aur kuch bohaaaaaaat choti si:@:

wasiay bari aur chooti tond bhi hotu hai:omg:

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Re: bazare lerki !

^ kalii billi ..yahan izzat say murad in logooN ki KIRDAAR hay jo ik lerkee k ley sub say baree cheez hota hay

main sirf itna kehte hoon

Allah nay jo fitree kashsih rakh dee hay mukhalif-e-jins main is say farar nahi....... haan hudood qaaim ho sakteen hain

lakin jub parents baghir kissi wajah k sirf is cheez ko ley ker issue banaain k un k baitay nay lerkee khud kion pasand ker lee to woh apnay BAchoN ki akhrat kharab kertay hain

pasand ka haq islaam nay diya hay ...app un ko ik sharayee taluq day ker un ki duniya or deen bacha saktay ho

u know wat

yahan lerkay ki hazaar girl friedns hoon yeh bura nahi bus woh un say Shaadi ki bat na keray yeh bura hee

ageb loog hain !

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Re: bazare lerki !

and how ppl judge other ppl’s kirdaar yunhi bethey bethey ???

is it really that easy to judge kisi ka kirdaar??

if it is then go ahead do it, i dont give a damn bout this kinda ppl

they think im watever keep thinking :rolleyes:

and talking to sum1 or luving sum1 makes u a rotten hoa???

how can ppl point their finger at sumbody for anything???

r they so perfect ???

who gave them the right to judge others???:rolleyes:

and i think jitna kisi ko koi kaam karne se roko ge wo utna hi wo kaam karne ki koshish kare ga

i know myslef i wont do anything i dont care but if sum1 stops me from doing sumthing i do it on purpose

and same goes with having a relationship with sum1

try stoping me then see wat i will do :chai:

cuz i believe hr kise ko apne ache bure ka pata hota hai nobody needs to be a bara buzurg and tell them wat to do

i think ppl shud keep their amazing brilliant parsa mashwaras to themselves as long as sum1 is not asking them