Battle of the sexes !

***Distrust seems to be widening and the more you argue or debate the topics instead of bridging that gap , it seems to me like its outright war !

If this is how we have become as men and women then how can we even think of being together within a marriage ?

The more you look at it , the more you feel that the institution of marriage is becoming defunct and its lost its sanctity !

…and STILL people wanna get married ??? ***

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900 choohay kha ke billi chali hajj ko!

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***Intox ! …so thats ur gameplan :hehe:

Oye get rid of that Avatar :smilestar:***

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^ not my gameplan … every other guppan seems to be doing just that. bash men in every thread and every blog entry for no reason and then go … “why this gender war” innocense.

avatar … I am not changing that for some time … just beginning to accept “all men are pigs” :rolleyes:

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***awwwww…i just noticed someone else having the same avatar :hehe:

I’m not bashing u guys…i accept u for what you are :@:

P.S i like the concept of a unified avatar though …:D***

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The institution of marriage is a religious one. Its a concept of loyalty and trust. I don't think either one ever goes defunct. Marriage in its nature is changing with a larger emphasis on the self and not on the collective. This is not unique to Pakistani men or women. Its something you see in all societies.

People are placing more emphasis on what they want. What they desire and their ability to compromise is decreasing. It is also an issue of ego. People consider themselves more important and value materialistic things more so than personal attributes.

Look at that thread PCG started Education and a job are the first two things. They are linked with monetary values. A guy with a good education and a good job = good marriage potential.

Less value is placed on the nature of the family, its background and its ethical values. That is the nature of the marriage these days.

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***CM Agreed about the value of marriage !

Marriage was considered a union , when you got married it was with the idea that its not now me or him , its US !

But people nowadays seem to be more selfish and self-centred.......and rather than going into a marriage with the concept of making it work , its become more about vested interests !


Is there something going on that i am totally unaware of?? Why are some men of GS sporting united swine like avatars? In retaliation to something? :konfused:


I think its cute…their unified stance against coughmenarepigsblogcoughcough ! :fatee:**

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Bottom Line Of Everything, Follow Islam and Nothing's Gona Go wrong, its when People Begin to interpet Islam in their OWN version. or begin to Follow other Civilizations and cultures.

Islam is the SOLUTION to ALL Problems. And I say Men and Women DESERVE Whts happening with them, cos they dunt follow Islam in its True meaning, bas yeh hi fir hoti hai k log kia kahein ge >> Men & Women are EQUALLY Worse at Complaining and NOT making things work. But the moment > Those People Who Accept that they are MUSLIMS, Start to Follow Islam, Then We ll see how Many Threads Get opened up in here be it in Life1 or any other Issue.

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^ wrong thread

sell your “product and services” here >>>> Classified Ads

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^that avatar have turned you in a pig :omg:

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^ better be a pig than a "holy cow"

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Men just dont understand women, thats where it all started.

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I love the pig avatars !!! How cute!

:hehe:

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People have changed, Societies have changed, Human value have changed ... and so does bond of marriage. Either we like it or not people have moved on to totally another level of commitment. It does not mean that we can totally abolish the institution of marriage, but its time to base it more on equality than standards of our forefathers.

Its a time of give and take. Self dependence and equal rights. No one is willing to take crap from anyone. There is nothing called LoVe unless it takes physical form of your offspring. Marriage is not a natural phenomena unless nature made it the way it is now. It takes an effort and urge to make it work. It will never come naturally. People motivated enough have spouses and others exhausting their energies bashing.