Re: Bargaining or begging...
Correction: My wife didn't allow any non-mehram touch her in her whole life. Alhamdulillah.
She was giving example of girls she know who are religious but unintentionally made this mistake without realizing that those men who do make up are also humans with feelings. Of course they did not intentionally allow a man to do it but might be out of excitement didn't realize that they were violating their own beliefs.
I hope it is clear now.