Re: Baree vs. Jehez
If your future in-laws do take your opinion into consideration, it definitely helps build a better relationship. I'll be getting engaged in a few weeks inshallah and my future MIL asked my mom if I'd like to get something from Toronto (as she lives in California), I told my mom, "there is no way I'll like anything here". So my mom suggested that since I order my clothes from Pakistan on a regular basis, I'll order the engagement outfit too. And apparently, my MIL was thrilled. That of course elevated the level of respect I have for her as clothes are very important to me. I know some girls on this forum don't really care but I do. If you care about what you wear on a daily basis, you DEFNITELY care about what you wear on an important occassion in your life :-)