:salam2: I wanna ask u all wht’s the importance of jewellary in our culture specially the gold ones,why there’s so much Attention towards wearing agold jewellary? In my family a married women should wear a nose pin when she gets married,not allowed to removed it(as its considered badshagooni)the only time it’s removed when god forbid the husband dies,same as for bangles it’s a must to wear bangles dadiyaan naaiyaan will say khali Haath achai nai lagtai suhagan Kai…same goes for earrings…nowdays gold price is at its peak,those who can’t afford to give their daughters gold are seen like theyr commitung some sin,even when on wedding day wen a bride wears a jewellary piece others ask her is it gold?i mean from Islamic point of view ummahat ul momenieen used to live simple life,they should be our ideal,we should follow them inorder to became a good women..am I rite?wht’s in ur opinion is the aurat ka asli zevar?
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I don't like Wearing jewelry at all. But I do like them, I have few sets of colorful bangles, I put wear them on eid.
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I think its not necessary to be gold things, but traditionally zevar 9ornaments) are considered as sign of suhaag in our cultures.
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This laung/nath what ever women wear on nose as a symbol of suhag is directly taken from hindu culture....
bangle are also nishani of suhag in hindus......
but now a days widow hindu women are not afraid of wearing bangles...
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But some religiously follow the Gold Jewellary thing...
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This laung/nath what ever women wear on nose as a symbol of suhag is directly taken from hindu culture....
bangle are also nishani of suhag in hindus......
but now a days widow hindu women are not afraid of wearing bangles...
I think our Culture is badly affected by Hinduism...the wedding rasams n all that goes with it...mehandi,mayoon,dowry,we hv forgotten Wht Islam teaches us..all these things are making a simple Sunnah (shadi)hard for those who can't afford.
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But some religiously follow the Gold Jewellary thing...
It related to class. As you mentioned gold was affordable for almost all classes in old days, but now its beyond reach of lower class. Even you may have observed that glass bangles were also got broken from a widow at the time of her husband's death. These all are cultural aspects of sub-continent and our religion doesn't allow them.
I've also observed that in old days, a widow couldn't wear color suits or wear any zewar, but the trend is changing and now these useless customs are not being followed in that strict sense.
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I think our Culture is badly affected by Hinduism...the wedding rasams n all that goes with it...mehandi,mayoon,dowry,we hv forgotten Wht Islam teaches us..all these things are making a simple Sunnah (shadi)hard for those who can't afford.
You are right that Islam doesn't teach these things, but nothing can be said with surety whether Hindus follow these traditions due to religion or due to folklore and customs of the area.
Bangles,nose pins,jewellary!
In our culture girls can't wear a nose pin if they are not engaged or married.
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Agree @Muqee,but I guess ppl are not willing to change either,they jus say its bad but still continue to do it for the sake of log Kia kaheingai gai!
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There is a special and separate ceremony in Sindhi for nose piercing and the girl get lots of sweets and dry fruit too 
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Agree @Muqee,but I guess ppl are not willing to change either,they jus say its bad but still continue to do it for the sake of log Kia kaheingai gai!
This Log Kiya kahenge is the biggest problem in our society.. people go beyond their budget, take heavy loans, for just the fear of this 'log kia kahenge'
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And one more aspect of this gold thing that if the gal doesn't bring Gold jewellary then her inlaws will not let her stay in peace either,her MIL will give her hard time all her life for not bringing gold n stuff with her!
Bangles,nose pins,jewellary!
Wearing jewelry is ok as long someone is not showing off 'hamare pas itne tola sona hai'.
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And one more aspect of this gold thing that if the gal doesn't bring Gold jewellary then her inlaws will not let her stay in peace either,her MIL will give her hard time all her life for not bringing gold n stuff with her!
This is true and bitter reality of our fake society :( Even people (Dulhe wale) put their demand before saying yes for a rishta
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well i am married but i was never forced to wear jewlary n logo ki adat hai khuch na khuch kahay gay, sometimes i feel its in nature of human being they are never satisfied, even if parents give gold to their daughter the next thing will be bus itna sa, halka hai n blah blah.
honestly speaking i daont like these traditions.
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Log phir bhi kehte hain:hypo:
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In our culture girls can't wear a nose pin if they are not engaged or married.
Which culture are you talking about Indian or Pakistani? I had my nose pierced and wore a small diamond nose pin since high school. I recently took out my pin I think it has has been a couple of years now and my piercing has probably closed up. All my friends had nose piercings and we were all single when got our noses pierced.
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One of my friend don't wear nosepins,even she diden't pierce her nose...till now wen she's married...even on weddings gals don prefer nose jewellary atall..
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I wish that boys take some bold step,n tell their moms to stop taking dowry n stuff,do a simple Nikah...and avoid lavish traditions wich are jus a waste of money.