Re: why…
Well its not a final final deal, if both people are miserable and can’t work it out, then they should separate kindly. We’re not Catholics!
Having said all that, you should think of it like a final deal, one should do everything humanly possible to maintain their marriage, divorce should only be a final last resort, after all other options have been exhausted. In a hadith it says Allah SWT dislikes divorce.
Another thing, people should be really careful and divorce according to Islam. The girl should live with the guy for her iddah, and he shouldn’t annoy her or kick her out. The Iddah period is given so perhaps the two could reconcile.
this is what he posted in some other thread !
He himself divorced his wife when she was visiting her family in Pakistan and now he is quoting what Islam says in case of divorce while he himself did not follow it.
doosro ko naseehat khud ko faseehat.