Re: why…
Oh yeah because in the U.S everyone is the same. Good respectable girls have no problem with a guy talking care of his parents. **
By Allah who has my life in his hands, my current wife who has been in the U.S since 9 or 10 told me herself we should stay with my parents**. I would be pretty insane to swear by Allah and lie just to prove something to names on a forum. : P that would damn me to hellfire. So you can shove that troll crap up where the sun doesn’t shine. I am sick of your bs. Just cause you managed to get some idiot wrapped around your finger, doesn’t mean all men have limp ***s
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But I took that oath for the men, to show that there are good Muslim girls out there. When you marry a girl from a religious family they have no problem listening to you.
Also By Allah, **my ex wife did demand me to move out, which I did only later realizing it was totally not worth it, cause it hurt my mom and dads feelings so much. How can I sit in my condo while they silently sob?? Every tear of theirs is a punishment for me. Girls like that are nothing but trouble.!!!
Its not like my mom and dad are cruel or Jahil village people, my mom is a working Doctor, and my dad is retired. All they want is good company and conversation.
No matter how much you love and care for your wife, she can never take the place of your mother. Your mother carried you for 9 months of pain, was up with you at night as a baby etc…I can’t even imagine. I could never ever repay my mother! No matter what a relationship between husband and wife can end in just 3 words, that’s all it is. We are not Catholics here!!
**My mom and dad give me so much duas, do you have any idea how powerful the dua of a parent is? Or how much sawab you get by making their hearts happy and keeping them company???
My mom and dads duas have gotten me all the things I have in life, I totally believe that.
I try to kiss my moms hands every single day before leaving the house.