Re: why…
Parents are above all EDAL…that much is true. However, parents matter the same for son and daughter.
The joint family system is a HINDU revaaj handed down to us from our neighbors. It has nothing to do with Islam and this jihalat you keep posting about the girl being an orphan as soon as she marries a man like you. Maybe your father should see your mother in the same light you see the rest of woman kind? How would you feel if he divorced her after three words and kicked her to the curb because she put too much salt in her handi? Your mother is also a wife and the same woman you find so disposable. That same woman that you seem to think you can find thousands of gave birth to you. Dont forget that.
Its not JUST your mother that deserves respect…its ALL women. You may be a man but remember one thing…you came out of a WOMAN.
Fortunately you are not in the majority and most desi Muslim men have MUCH more respect for a woman than you do so Im not at all worried about your posts influencing people. You sound young, immature and full of bitterness.
WOMEN: Any man that treats you like a piece of disposable meat is NOT worth the dirt he stands on. If he makes you feel disposable…dispose of HIM. Men like this come a dime a dozen so no worries about not finding another one.
You know what the funny thing is here? YOu will never live a balanced life. It will always be one against another and I again feel so sorry for your wife here.
Women are not your slaves…they dont OBEY you. They take care of you out of the goodness of their heart and are not required to do so. She can demand payment to take care of your brats…she isnt required to take care of them. She can demand a separate home if she wants. She can work if she wants. She can do anything she damn well wants…these are the freedoms given to her by Allah swt. You mean nothing in the fabric of actual Islam…do you realize that? You are ONE single lonely little man preaching about how women are expendable and can be easily replaced.
Do you realize how replaceable YOU are? Do you have any idea how easy men like YOU are? Do you have any clue how simple it is to find such a kacha dimagh like yours and twist it any way a woman wants? Do you know? Nope. Why do you forget you’re living in America and not some ancient desert where all the women are not uneducated or independent.
You have no idea what a woman can do…yet you come here and post rubbish like this thinking you have it all figured out. The ONLY reason a woman would possibly marry in this day and age is for either love or children. So, unless you are providing actual and real LOVE…you’ve been replaced by a million sperm banks already. Its not women that are disposable.
When you have children and your daughters decide to dump you in a nursing home…I hope you remember this. Itna bara bol nahin boltay…because you have NO idea what your future holds for you and when YOU will need a woman like your own daughter to be there for you. Fear the day that happens because you never know your past sins will come back to bite you. And we all know EDAL that you have plenty of those.
EDAL after reading all your posts and bakwas like wife with 3 words = over. Sine you are such a nice & religious guy and since you are God’s gift to mankind I really hope and pray that your sister and your daughters get husbands like you and they treat your sister and your daughters exactly the same way your treated your wife and they think of them the same way you think of women.