Bahu Obligations and the Joint Family System

Re: why…

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A wife* is more obliged to her husband. She has to respect and obey him the most.

** Ayisha (R) reported that when they asked the prophet to whom was a woman most obliged, he said “to her husband”, when we asked to whom is a man most obliged to, he said "to his mother".*
12.Reported by al-Bazzar with a hasan isnad. See Majma’ al-Zawa’id, 4/308, Bab haqq al-zawj ‘ala’l-mar’ah.
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*****If I were to order anyone to prostrate to anyone else, I would have ordered women to prostrate to their husbands.*

11.A hasan sahih hadith, narrated by Tirmidhi, 2/314, in Abwab a-rida’, 10.

What is a Nikah? It is the girls Wali handing her over to her husband. He is her world now. She has to obey him over her father, good Muslim fathers know this. Daughters are nothing more than a “trust” to be given away one day to a husband. This was stated in my Nikha Khutba.

The Prophet (PBUH) said, “Whenever a woman harms her husband in this world (that is without any due right), his wife in Heaven among the Houris in Jannah says: You must not harm him. May Allah destroy you! He is only a passing guest with you and is about to leave you to come to us”.
[At-Tirmidhi]

My mom >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Wife>>>>any other girl

Guys, like I said Larkio ki koi kami nahi hain, get a nice one who will give izzat to you and your family.