Nearly three years and this is all I hear! It's ridiculous. It's one thing when it comes from close family members, but from aunties who barely see you, it's just plain ridiculous! How dare they.
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Ok girls, just so you all don't feel bad, aunties wonder and care about me too. Yesterday we were invited at someone's house and this auntie is so worried about my hair. Everytime she sees me, she notices my hair (losing) and mentions the same thing everytime to mom and mrs. "Sohail k baal pahley sey kamm nahi ho gaye?". I can't do much about it because she doesn't say that directly to me. I mean come on, why does she care?!?!? The uncles I sit with and other guys I hang out with don't give a care about it, why aunties?!?
This particular aunty is in her 40s and just had a baby girl a month ago. If she ever tells that to me at my face, I have an answer ready. "Buss aunty kia karein, baaz dafa zindagi mein woh ho jaata hai jo expected nahi hota. Mein 20s mein hoon aur merey baal jharr rahey hain, aap 40s hain aur abhi bhi bachey paida kar rahi hain" :)
Poor men! It is a bit too soon for the hair to fall out - sometimes its heridatry (sp)
ONE of my hubby's aunts was on phone with me and told me since I can't give him a lot of time coz of my studies I should have a baby so he won't get bored anymore. I was speechless!!!!!
I will let you ladies have your discussion/ventilation after saying a few words.
I have made it very clear in direct words to my family that we will have babies when we think is the best time. I do not let pressure overcome me. They understand me loud and clear and that is the reason they do not ask me that question anymore. It's Mrs. who gets under pressure and lets them ask this question again and again. I have suggested her if anyone asks again, refer them to me and I would love to talk to them.
Mom also understands, or pretends that she does, and I respect her feelings/wish to become a grandma. It's mostly when she talks to her friends and I don't know what they ask/tell her. It's after those conversations when she starts it all over again with Mrs.
Oh well.
oooye hoooye....yeh Mrs shikra aapki biwi hai....wah ji wah...
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Poor men! It is a bit too soon for the hair to fall out - sometimes its heridatry (sp)
It is, from BOTH sides. Not sure about my dad and his brothers' young age but my mamoos are in late 20s and early 30s and they are losing hair like crazy too. So I know there's nothing wrong with me, I am getting it from mom AND dad's sides. Lucky me?
this thread is so yummy i dont miss geo tv any moree
p.s. u dont have to take ppl literally... like the further aunties.. they say things for the heck of saying thingsssss .... take them lightly not as the decision makers of ur lifeee ..
p.s.2 u too are shoooooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :)
i haven’t gotten that far yet, on my end its, so when are you getting married? oof do you see a line of men just waiting to marry me following me around that you ask me this like its no problem?
what gets me is all these aunties were once in the same position…did it not ever bother them???
but i agree with the telling people the whole Allah ki marzee or kismat thing…no matter how much you try to have kids or avoid having kids, it’s all about when God decides it’s time
Yesterday I went to a birthday party of a kid. There was an aunty who was HARASSING me about getting another baby !!
I hate it. I was sitting there and got mad. thanks God, my mother came with a good comment and shut them up!
Its so stupid, there was a childless lady sitting next to us. poor thing got sad, as I think ppl harass her also, but its not her fault that she has no baby. these aunties need to think before opening their mouths.