Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo
lol...sorry, i am not laughing at you, but laughing at the mentality of our own pakistani AUNTIAN and how their vicious minds work...they would do just about everything that is possible to make sure that you don't live in peace...don't let them bother you because the more you would allow them to get to you, the more intrusive and brash they would get...But the key thing is to understand that all this will never stop...you will have people like these at every stage of life who would like to and try their best to say/do something that disturbs you and torments you...So, disregard them completely...
P.S. i would narrate a funny yet discomforting story that happened with one of my cousins...You wrote that those auntian are going bonkers over your not having babies after about 1.5 years of marriage... Well, my cousin faced an exactly opposite situation..she was blessed to conceive her first baby in about a month after her marriage...When they heard this, a few of WELL_WISHER AUNTIES said to her **BETA, TUM DONO NE TO JET-SPEED SE KAAM KIA..AISI BHI KIA JALDI THEE..KUCH DIN TO ARAAM KERNA CHAHIYE THA...AB HER SAAL EK ADAD GOUD ME HOGA..FAMILY PLANNING KA NAAM NAHI SUNA TUM NE? **Saying that she was baffled, shocked, and pretty humiliated is an understatement...but, seriously, when we heard about this, we were like WHAT THE HELL YOU GUYS WANT, MAN!
Moral of the story... you can never please these aunties so don't bother what they say. Just live your lives the way two of you want. :)