Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo
I am Allah Mian’s lawyer is this case , why do throw every thing back on him .
If you are sensible and educated enough to use precautions when you want then you should also know how to put it in right words when questioned.Why not tell people straight away that you are waiting for the right time in your own terminology .
Isn’t it funny ? either using precautions or having difficulties in conceiving , Just blame it on Allah . ‘ bas Jee , Jabh Allah ki marzi ‘.
This attitude should get changed and people for heaven sake start calling a spade a spade .
It is Allah ke marzi...people get pregnant even when they are on some kind of precaution....we can do nothing in life without Allah merzi.....and you really think telling all these aunties about our birthcontrol methods will help...trust me it will create more problems....and god forbid if in future you have problem conceiving the baby due to natural causes guess who will be blamed...the girl for using birth control...and all her life she would have to listen to people criticizing her.
p.s....are you married???if not then its not your fault to think like this right now!