bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? *halo*

[Mrs.Shikra]

Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo

@Shikra

I will let you ladies have your discussion/ventilation after saying a few words.

I have made it very clear in direct words to my family that we will have babies when we think is the best time. I do not let pressure overcome me. They understand me loud and clear and that is the reason they do not ask me that question anymore. It’s Mrs. who gets under pressure and lets them ask this question again and again. I have suggested her if anyone asks again, refer them to me and I would love to talk to them.

Mom also understands, or pretends that she does, and I respect her feelings/wish to become a grandma. It’s mostly when she talks to her friends and I don’t know what they ask/tell her. It’s after those conversations when she starts it all over again with Mrs.

Oh well.

isi baat ker tou der lagta hai…i am too scared to do that

@Iconoclast

There is neither any need to embarrass them nor to give them a hard talk.

Mrs Shikra!

You need to understand one thing, they love you and your hubby. And these are the people who will love your children ( whenever you decide to have them). They will be there when you kids are in need.

Do you really want to embarrass the people who will unconditionally love your kids? Do you want to draw a wedge between yourself and them?

A polite answer is all what you need to give.

I totally understand that k they love us that is why they care for our future…thats true for my close family but most desi aunties just love to gossip…they dont have anything better to do so they pick on people like me who they know wont talk back…if they love us sooooo much then they should understand us…okee i understand they have to ask but i think one time is enough but if they ask you the same question like everytime they see you its just they want to annoy the hell out of you and they are waiting for you to do “batameezi” with them and phir they can gossip about that k “flan kee bahu bari batameez hai”

**EVERYBODY ELSE…**lets all mil ker find a soultion for this problem…but again i think there is no solution