Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo
There is neither any need to embarrass them nor to give them a hard talk.
Mrs Shikra!
You need to understand one thing, they love you and your hubby. And these are the people who will love your children ( whenever you decide to have them). They will be there when you kids are in need.
Do you really want to embarrass the people who will unconditionally love your kids? Do you want to draw a wedge between yourself and them?
A polite answer is all what you need to give.
Best answer so far.