Re: bahu kee koi khushkhabri?? halo
I feel for people who endure these questions especially since I went thru almost 3 years of infertility treatments. You cant begin to imagine the questions that people feel free to ask of you - not desis specifically - I mean EVERYONE. I felt like making a big poster for our front yard specifying my hubbys sperm count on it just to shut em all up.
From experience, you need to either embarrass them into silence or tell them off in very plain language. Otherwise it just continues and that can actually be worse in some ways than actually dealing with infertility (or with delaying parenthood for a bit).
There is neither any need to embarrass them nor to give them a hard talk.
Mrs Shikra!
You need to understand one thing, they love you and your hubby. And these are the people who will love your children ( whenever you decide to have them). They will be there when you kids are in need.
Do you really want to embarrass the people who will unconditionally love your kids? Do you want to draw a wedge between yourself and them?
A polite answer is all what you need to give.